Amputee People
How will I tell my kids?
Kids are much more inquisitive and accepting of situations than we imagine – tell them how it is, that you are having to re-learn the skills they can take for granted and involve them in your recovery — they will ask the most obvious questions and solve the most challenging issues simply by being direct and not stumbling over political correctness! — Be proud of their curiosity and there support. Use their needs for adventure and activity to drive you through the difficult days.
What will my kids think?
They will think what they want to think!.. But don’t hide the reality from them — they will imagine that bones are visible, that its been eaten by sharks or any number of other tales dreamt up in the play ground – talk it through with them involve them in the imb as a part of you and be careful they don’t run into it or trip over it next to the bed… hex head bolts are not too forgiving!
What will other kids think and say?
Kids can me mean, and hilariously curious in the same breath — support your child as they understand the effects that being an amputee has on you and the rest of the family — and be there to explain issues that other children and their parents raise.
Will I be able to have a normal relationship with my partner?
We are adaptable as humans! — if the will is there you will find the way — if the will isn’t there confront why and talk it through don’t ignore it hoping it will sort itself—it wont. Talking about what has happened and how life is different is important and if you feel that being supported through those discussions is helpful seek that support. This factor alone will have an huge impact on individuals and families recovery – don’t let something that feels awkward to chat about ruin something so special.
